Sorry to hear about your luck JMZ. Hang in there man.
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Take Care and be Brave.
GO work out for at least 20 minutes - you'll feel at least physically better.
Agree with Big T, don't whole up in the house, get out and get as active as possible in the circumstances. good luck.
Very sorry to hear about your troubles, JMZ. You admit being an asshole at times, but I think you are just a guy and a good one at that. In other words, you don't deserve this, anymore than you deserved the problems from your Madville-famous ex.
My advice to you it that you don't take advice, not even from me. Just listen to your own heart and take things at your own pace.
They have professional people who can serve papers on a person, so don't sweat the small stuff. Just do the things that you can do as you get the opportunity to do them. Small steps one at a time.
And take care of yourself, you will get through through this. And come back to us here too. We like hearing from you, even when you are being a asshole. 
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Good luck JMZ.
this is too bad... best of luck.
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Small update.
Nothing has changed. 4 weeks monday. I'm hopeful because of the actions I'm taking, and the evasive actions she is taking. I can't and shouldn't say much more than that.
I hope to be able to tell the whole story eventually, but I might have a long stressful road ahead of me.
I am getting back to the gym monday however. I'm down 20lbs. which sucks, but at least I'm lean as hell right now. Got to get my heart some good stress rather than this crap.
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Damn.

I'm so sorry to hear that, cheaters fucking SUCK.
Hopefully the attorney that you hired for the first black hole will be able to do something about this second one.
Good luck.